Talking about why can be difficult to apply Self-honesty when facing an opportunity to change. The halo of justifications and excuses to find everywhere and to give into one is enough to give up the decision to change.
Giving some examples of how projecting self-defined, pre-judged past memories can compromise practical change/expansion.
Why and how can regular writing be an immense support to walk through accepted and allowed self-dishonest patterns.
Study Self-Mind-Beingness and find practical solutions to change self-dishonest patterns: