This is a reminder of what is really going on here and to share a common sense point, because this might not be that obvious in overall:
I remember when my sister considered me once as a ‘strange man who thinks about death’ – well, not exactly, but it does not mean I do not realize every day that I am certainly going to die.
This might sound like creepy, but it is not a bad thing at all – well, this is not a fear-based reaction, like ‘o m g – I am going to die, noooooo’ – but it’s rather like ‘well, practically put, what is important, what are the values, principles, the very meaning of life of who I represent here within my living expression today – and tomorrow.
It also can be really awesome if I also consider what I have expressed yesterday and before, but only to be able to clarify who I am going to be today and tomorrow as the best I could be possible.
‘Best’ meaning here to live up to my utmost potential, which I might not know until I push myself through some resistances, even uncomfortable situations, finding out and expanding my limitations – and within that if I put everything of myself, I might see it.
There is a cool concept which I encountered through the books of Carlos Castaneda – he was of a ‘shaman’ apprentice by the story.
There were qualities pronounced by his teacher, Don Juan and Don Jenaro: one of those was being: impeccable, blameless.
This was always an important thing within my life, to live like I would not feel ashamed or to regret what I did or did not – but how can I ensure that I will not regret anything? That I have no shame at all. The common sense is to always give all I can every day, in each moment and I might not know how much I can do until I did not try.
My father was also referred as a ‘strange man’, he also often contemplated about death, but his message to me was ‘see, son, we could die any day and we can’t do anything about it, so it seems quite pointless, we have no control’ – meanwhile how I concluded was the opposite – because I have nothing to lose(listen to Bernard’s interview!) – I can and should live up to my possible utmost potential, which I might not know until I am absolutely certain that I did all I could, I pushed all my limits until I could and I did not give into any temptation of any resistances within my mind. Why? Because what I resist persists – and then I am not the directive principle, rather I allow an accepted consequence to set a limit to me, who I accept myself to be, which is what is it: self-compromise.
So then it is the reason, the justification, the very excuse is who I actually am as manifested consequence – but more – what I physically participate within and also accepting and allowing within this Earthly physical existence – is also who I actually am. Might sound as exaggeration but if I really want to take responsibility for all I was, I am or I ever can be(come) – this is what I have to stand up to.
So giving up all of my life for something sounds self-deception, because how I could give up what I do not actually have, which is apparently called ‘my life’ – when I have actually, certainly no power to stop my death. I can postpone, I can slip through here and there, but eventually I am going to die. Of course, this does not mean to become reckless, irresponsible, or self- and life-abusive, just to have an aware reference point not get possessed by the idea of fear of death too much to the point of resistances and self-compromises.
So this is also a cool motivation for the really sane human – there is no emotion, fear, of any negative association – nor also a positive reaction of I am still here today – these would mean I am giving a meaning, a purpose for who and what and why I am here and by that I would exist with that point within a conditioned relationship in my mind but as it is of conditions, so beyond that it is the actual liberty of self-realization that who I am is here – always here unconditionally.
With this starting point I take responsibility for all what is here – starting with me, who I accept myself to be – in my mind, from which I perceive norms, limits, this certainly can be questioned, challenged, understood and eventually transcended, meaning I am not accepting anything less than who I can be within expression, living, actual physical participation with which I am influencing my reality.
Realizing the current conscience, awareness and actual power I currently can direct – this encompasses my mind, my body at first, then what I actually can do within this human system with my mind, body, words.
Many people try to find a meaningful purpose, a compass to live by, an interest – but the simplest yet greatest perspective, starting point and thus responsibility simply must be what one can incorporate, embrace, including ALL.
This certainly can and will fuck the ego-mind-consciousness if one can take it seriously: What is best for all – in theory, in practice – even to figure out one has to be stepped out of the hypnotic trance of self-interest, it’s justification of fear of loss to stand naked in front of self, existence, as equal as one as a whole yet still an individual expression of life.
So this is actually cool – if I only care about myself or about a certain part, a group of existence, then I am neglecting, I am disregarding, I am actually separating myself from all I could stand up to in terms of responsibility, awareness and actual self-and thus: life-realization.
So waking up as a purpose, every day, to realize – who I am today is all I’ve got, and I will not get any better than this.
Everybody dies, that’s quite certain, and everybody will take responsibility for what they perceive themselves to be – so it’s also cool – everybody can be as much, as great, as powerful as they want, but that comes with responsibility – this is the ultimate question: what is my interest? Only Self or others as well? What it means to take responsibility for all?
With this as a moral compass, as a point of integrity, responsibility – we can apply not only common sense but also a more simplification of priority about what is really important, I mean one can be nervous when dating with someone at first or even disappointed about not getting awesome service at the restaurant while many are living in hell on earth – one can start asking that “is my fucking instability, self-centered whining, egoistic, mind-parasite sex-drug-party-craving the best for all, really?” One can let the point of integrity go with an excuse of a simple fall or self-dishonesty accepted, while to realize that we all each can accumulate towards what is best for not only ourselves, but also to include all and if we can’t, it might mean we are too stuck within our mind to see the reality, which can be investigated, understood step by step with the decision to be made every day, because one can admit or not – we can all die at any place in any time. And of course not to get stuck in that as something to be feared from, but as I mentioned before: a grownup, sane person can realize facts. Everyone wants to be handled good, so to manifest that, we just have to give that to receive the same…
Many can say easily, to live in the moment, go with the flow, but to be able to live shameless, as innocent without ignorance only can be realized if one has no shame and regret at all – to be able to look into anyone’s eyes and not to say ‘I am sorry’ – but to be able to stand like that – ‘this is who I am, I do all I can do’, which is not an excuse, but a starting point in each moment to push beyond resistances and limitations because we should not accept to be anything less than who we really are as life as all as equal as one.
It is not that difficult to consider what is best for all – here is something to read about that:
This may sound complicated and ‘philosophical’, but it’s really not.
What’s an example of a starting point that is not best for all?