There has been some realizations regarding to how I compromise my consistency when I am exhausted, sick which bugs me since a while, thus I re-align here with written words to assist and support within real time physical change. So much things happened and I am definitely going to share all points here.
In short, at times when I am sick, tired, exhausted, I tend to let everything go and focus on resting fully, it’s like a program which defines my purpose to rest as much as possible to recover quickly to be able to continue with what I was busy with before the illness/exhaustion.
There is a point when it is supportive to really just lay down and do nothing but there is when I can have a tendency to use it as a backdoor, an old habit to re-create experiences, inner reactions, behaviors what I would not do usually because already ‘realized’ that it is not absolutely self-honest, for instance to ‘fall’ into entertainment while disregarding discipline, commitment, integrity and self-honesty.
The mental, emotional, physical feel of ‘lack of energy’ triggers some pre-programmed behavior to re-fuel the mind, the personality, the act of separation from directly be here as unified and it is of self-dishonesty – I can – and in fact anyone can and should live directly as the flesh of life without the mind, without the fear, the definitions, energy – just substance as expression here.
As much it can sound as spiritual – it isn’t – though many spiritual path mention the transcendence or stopping the mind – to walk this path is completely different, which is stopping the addition to energy, to thoughts, to fear, to desires and develop self-trust, self-honesty, self-consistency here – it is challenging, but doable – there is a free online course which can support one to start learning how to assist and support oneself to face and stop the limitations of the mind: http://lite.desteniiprocess.com
I would not suggest it if it would not be that exceptionally supportive.
So: Conditional standing – how and why I allowed to standing up from the mind to become conditional to the mind thus creating the trap of 22?
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to see/realize/understand that there is one point I am relying on within standing up as LIFE – and it is the mind.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that I am deceiving myself within the process of standing up through and as my mind – with energy – allowing relying on energy, meaning when feeling tired, sick, ill, exhausted, in pain – letting go of standing up and holding onto the idea of need to pull myself together, rest, recover by methods what in fact give energy – meaning stopping the process of standing up from energy to direct me and go into reactions such as entertainment, lust meanwhile manifesting conflict, friction within me because exactly seeing I am giving up into I’ve committed myself to stop participating within.
I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to become occupied with energetic reactions, movements, definitions, within my mind and body and disregarding what is here as reality of why in the first place I let go my commitment, what I’ve decided to do such as decomposing, releasing, removing automatic time looping which self-dishonest choices I’ve made, which does not consider all beings here but only myself.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself of giving up into energetic hardwires within my mind and wanting to feel the energy as this is I’ve pre-defined as being alive while already proven to myself that this is not really who I am but of consequences and within the self-judgement I create what I should do yet not doing so, defining myself as not absolutely being within direction, which to see, experience, observe feels irritating thus creating a conflict, friction within me of then why I do not stop if I see it and going into the reaction for this conflict instead of seeing exactly what it is and why I do what I do for a deeper understanding.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that by creating friction within me I accumulate energy to stand up and never realizing the moment I engage within this that it is of conditions, thus always re-creating the same scenario – standing up and falling – and then using reactions, emotions, feelings, thoughts to judge me and then create friction with what to generate energy to stand up and not realizing that the very starting point of using energy to stand up is of self-dishonesty thus invalidating the whole process of standing up, because what fuels the standing up process is dependent of falling into the mind thus never really standing up but only approaching and ‘being failed’, ‘being judged as failed because of failed’.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that my standing up was an intent, not direct self-expression because conditioned to friction, energy, judgement, a perception of not good, not good enough thus by that triggering the point of standing up, because conditioned to the idea and definition, judgement and experience of falling.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that the energy creation of friction by inner conflict is not me, not real, not self, but of and as fear, in and as the mind thus anything I do according to this energy – it is self-delusion, self-dishonesty and if I react, define, accumulate according to it – I will be facing chasing a mirage and ending up realizing the starting point with I’ve created it: fear of loss. Fear of change, fear of being without energy, fear of not moving.
I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to be persuaded with my thoughts that there could be any moment wherein I do not have to push, direct, and birth myself as physical but when I could go into mode of entertainment as self-defined and thus creating reaction, friction and losing principle, losing presence, losing myself.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that being so close for continuous and constant standing up, I’ve allowed myself to gain false confidence with what boosting into experience and not considering and acting according to facts.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to practically list and remember the points I’ve allowed myself to define the reasons and justifications of how and why exactly I’ve allowed myself to go back into the habit of be the starting point as the mind and thus not being aware what I manifest as consequence until the experience of fall of energy directs me and then I react with thoughts, emotions and then when the energy is gone and facing what I allowed then feeling the guilt, shame and sorrow and then activating wait and hope that next time won’t happen because I don’t want and also judging myself as not good enough and by that stimulating myself to start to move and then move only and until this shame and guilt and sorrow is fueling and then gaining confidence and not realizing that I do not change, I do not trust myself directly but of and as constructs of habits, personalities, reactions without being aware of what exactly these are such as exhausting myself and then being sick and then feeling low on energy and wanting to boost energetic states with arousal, adrenaline, coffee, laughter, entertainment such as wanting to have sex, playing computer game, watching films, watching things on internet what looks interesting or just I can judge them as negative or positive.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to see/realize/understand when and how I exactly lose presence from physical and where abusing my human physical body within the altair of experience, praising the mind and reactions instead of be equal and one with and as my physical body.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to apply self-forgiveness to points wherein I am losing presence, when I am not directing myself, when I deliberately exhaust myself with the perception of I have to do more until I can instead of realizing it has the starting point of fear of not being good enough.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to go deeper with the ‘not being good enough’ experience of understanding exactly what I participate within and why and solve the problem of fear which is based on comparison, imagination not considering reality.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to feel physically fully here when I am experiencing fear in and as my mind, body, when energy moves within me, thought reactions energize, feeling the electric movements from my solar plexus, my muscles wiggle, when not being aware of the physical breath and allowing myself to accumulate it to a degree of being absolutely tired and exhausted and completely sucked into the mind and just wanting to get to sleep and try to recover and start over to stand up.
When and as I feel myself unstable, weak, exhausted, tired, sick, distanced – I remember – this is a point I’ve been indirectly accepting to compromise my standing up without ever questioning it – thus I check, whether I am able to assist and support myself without going back to the old habits what with I was unable to be satisfied because the obviousness of self-acceptance of self-dishonesty, thus it is not supporting if at any sign of exhaustion, weakness I experience, define, react-to I allow myself to just lay back into the mind to re-stabilize myself with the same patterns I’ve been working on to practically let go, stop, transcend and change myself from.
When and as I see that I want to rest, take a break, recover, heal, I do continue to breathe, as presence, as self-direction, even within resting, within healing – meaning continuing with observing the mind, pushing physical presence, exploring practical ways to remain here, directive, stopping being influenced with energy by practical understanding, knowing of how and why I react to what and decide to stop without allowing inner conflict, friction to use for directing myself.
When and as I am sick – I simply rest, without judging, defining blame to myself, I trust myself, I allow myself to feel the pain, the physical state, even if it means to become one and equal with all the pain, suffering, uncomfortability and I stand – there is no way to escape from consequence, this is where and who I am as physical presence and I realize – anytime I escape into the mind – that is not real haven, that is not lasts, that is not really me – thus I accumulate direction, consistency and decision to express within each moment, regardless of my physical state, my conditions.
When and as I am tired, exhausted, hungry, feeling weak, ill, sick – I slow down within and ensure that I do not get lost within reactions towards positive and negative energy – and even if it means not behave as I would want, I realize that is of self-definition and any related reaction to it is still the mind – I trust myself and I express and I remain present, direct, physical, even if it means completely stopping, completely allowing myself to embrace physical presence and I allow and explore, direct and accept to be fully here breath by breath.
When and as I am resisting to rest – I check – am I in my body fully here or I am rushing ideas from my mind to do without considering, more importantly: respecting my human physical body? And I commit myself to consider, physically feel and respect my body as giving what I’d like to receive – unconditional love, care, support, birthing as life.
When and as I am exhausted or sick or unable to do what I committed to act – I look into the circumstances and conditions, apparent choices and reactions I’ve made to learn more about how and why I acted so, especially when after that I’ve judged myself as not cool.
When and as I see that I am exhausting myself because at this moment I am not feeling tiredness, however I am certainly aware of that how much I’ve slept before, how soon I have to wake up as rested yet I am high on what I do as judging it as positive – I stop and let all go and I realize I can trust myself within not falling into the ‘constant resting’ so while resting keeping up with discipline, presence,direction.
I commit myself to explore further how and when I disregard the process of standing up based on conditions, especially when feeling uncomfortable, exhausted, sick, ill, weaker, tired – and realizing that if any condition I allow to influence, direct me to tell me who I am – I am not yet myself but of accumulated acceptance of self-dishonesty, which I stand up to breath by breath.
I commit myself to slow down and let everything go when I am losing physical presence and I direct myself to remain here – even if fear, uncomfortability, pain comes – I embrace and stand and remain here, directive.
I commit myself to develop self-trust within to distinguish embracing to remain here and self-acceptance and endurance, meaning it is not to accept everything as it is and to remain so, but from the dishonest mind perspective first to accept the facts here – yet not accepting that as who I must be, but as the current consequence of my past actions and not-actions which I must understand within absolute specificity, naturally, breath by breath, act by act.
I commit myself to explore the practical ways to remain here, directive, within process of self-forgiveness while being in pain, uncomfortability and exhaustion and realizing that I can remain self here regardless of anything if I am able and willing and actually living the re-alignment and physical change.
I commit myself to decompose all self-definitions I accepted and allowed to accumulate within my mind about how I must feel and behave, react to and do when having pain, uncomfortability, exhaustion, sickness until I am standing here with empty, black, whole mind which is me as life as directive principle here within absolute self-honesty in all moments equally.
By listening these EQAFE interviews and working on an Agreement Course assignment some new points opened up which with I will continue in the next post, but to give a direction to it concisely: PERFECTION.
EQAFE is one crucial support within the Unification of Man – the only thing to be really grateful for it is to not just listen, understand but to actually LIVE the words of it, as it is an invaluable support for anyone who is willing to invest time and practical effort within Self-realization to widen perspective, gain awareness and take responsibility for what is really happening within and as ourselves and the world around us.