- [JTL Day 201] Tiredness vs Awareness part 1-Introduction
- [JTL Day 202] Tiredness vs Awareness part 2-Self-forgiveness
So as I was investigating my existence when I was in a flu at the weekend- which is kind of a catalyst in terms of intensities of self, especially with the fact that I was not ‘working’ but had to rest quite some.
It was fascinating to see through the layers of the mind – as mostly I am quite busy, always doing things until the point of exhaustion, tiredness.(It’s related to inconsistency and lack of self-knowing, but it is for now an other topic to write about). Right now in this moment so much thing coming up, thus I take some breathes to remain here, directive, present without losing focus from all the memories, insights I want to write and share.
Alright. So the first thing comes up is motivation. It is like a ‘pilot light’ there is this beingness within me and with motivation can grow to a bonfire and easily to a firestorm wherein it is too much and burns all around too soon and then shrinks back again into this tiny little flame again.
Motivation is the blood, the petrol of my fire to melt down and boil up the ice holding me back and when I am out of it I am: tired.
Fascinatingly enough I’ve been successfully separated myself from the very idea/meaning and actualization of this word: motivation by making it conditional/literally limiting it to circumstances/events/experiences and thus my very expression I’ve given permission to prevent being consistent, unconditional, permanent.
Giving a couple of experiences when regardless of how much I’ve slept – I woke up like this: sleeping sleeping sleeping …awaken….opening my eyes – YES – I am here again – then jumping out of bed and rushing for doing the thing I was motivated about.
In fact does not matter much anymore what was the thing I was motivated to do, but just for practical examples I list a couple ones, also noting some self-definition as ‘spice’
-Playing Halflife computer game at the university – the storyline, the game play, the experience, the whole stimulation and feeling I had meanwhile – just motivated me to play through as consistently as I could, in a way totally living in the game without needing to leave it for my real living(I really did this with many dozen games already, but this one was specifically intense, around 1999).
-Facing the final exam at university thus eventually being free of it – the excitement of uncertainty of success, the stimulation for approximating the literally unknown etc
-To wake up meeting my girl to make love, mixing up sexual desire with fascination with the being
-Waking up for a sunrise to take pictures/videos at a cool location, wanting to explore the virginity of the first moments of the day with my awesome hi-tech gear for perfecting my skills, for share with others, for ‘enjoyment’
Okay see – it is quite ‘personal’ so to speak – I’ve defined myself so and thus I reap what I sow – ENERGY – so when I am motivated, it’s like the jolly joker to beat tiredness – I don’t care, I am shining through so to speak – it’s bearable, it’s like weather – shouldn’t and thus doesn’t influence my day.
Tonight I’ve noticed this flaming again – tomorrow for a filming job, I will buy the fastest compact flash card available in the market, making the amount of recordable video doubled as I am capable today in one session, faster, more smoothly.
I am motivated to go to work because at lunchtime I will go to the mall and pay for it and most of the money is covered by the actual ‘work’ I make with video – it’s like I am right on track for accumulating a dream coming true.(I go into the details as reveals the whole scenario more clearly).
Here I must distinguish from obsession from motivation as for instance when I was dopesmoker, I was so eager to jump out from the bed, eat some(just for the high not being about realizing/solving hunger) and get violently stoned as soon as possible – and that was also kind of motivation – later on I was doing things while stoned, but it was the important aspect of waking up motivated for sure.
I just wanted to bring some of my current life’s ‘motivations’ I decide to correct as I see the self-interest emerging – not as buying a flash card is selfish but if I have energy, reaction, attachment – I am not fully here as self, but of and as ideas of consciousness systems. This is the eye of the needle, no compromise within the starting point of absolute self-honesty – to ensure nothing motivates me automatically, even if that automation was created, programmed, given permission to by me.
So even the very definition of -motivation- can be literally of anything, thus the human energetic organic robot is quite a specific one in terms of it’s wide variety of programmability, but in it’s essence – it’s all the same, just the pictures, definitions are different among individuals.
Alright – so all I wanted to point out is that the very motivation I had/have is still mostly about my desires – with starting Process, and long before, I had the idea of motivation being to benefit all beings, all beings equally, but that still rarely being lived out IN ACTION.
As many people as well probably can refer to it – almost each and every single pageant talks about ‘world peace’ and actually most of the human individuals would want to have a better world IN THEORY – but to actually do something about it is so rare and in the jungle of personalities of our mind’s weaved self-interest we barely are able to fulfill our own desires.
Especially when one would want to act according to what is best for all – even to find out what that would mean one can face extreme amount of layers/systems/reactions and then to reach the point of actual realization of what would really impact for all beings – such realization as the money point in this human system – towards the actual, practical, doable plan on how exactly, specifically could that be manifested: and then facing one’s reaction to that amount of change, work and effort required to manifest – depends on and influences: MOTIVATION.
So in a way – motivation is also a construct, especially if separated from self, from direct self-expression – when it is self-defined, conditional, limited – can support through only a certain amount of resistance/tiredness – from the mind( – still not of physical fatigue).
Tiredness is a concept, an idea which is like a nest, a self-weaved mind-creation with which one can say to self and others: well, I am pretty much tired to a certain degree that I can’t really move anymore effectively.
Moving, meaning realizing, changing, expanding, really living.
Most of the mothers can relate with this I guess – in the early morning the baby cries and one wakes up to feed, to care, to support – and can overcome so much experience of tiredness, however many can still be influenced, dragged down with the experience of tiredness.
As I was observing my own experiences recently while having the flu – I had some headache, I was in the bed, I just had a long nap, I was so tired – and I was just recognizing that actually I was listening to thoughts –
‘Well, maybe I am this much tired, because now my body is fighting the illness, so I am exhausted, I need to sleep more’.
Thus I slept more – and I was more tired!
I was like wtf is going on, I do sure rest, I am all the rest I can have, but still I barely can jump out from the bed and drink water – which might be required for not feeling that tired.
So then I was experiencing this thought-hive in my mind for a while when in fact I was a bit ‘energetic’ – in a way like stimulated up with these thought-patterns/reactions to them with polarity/friction so then I stood up and started to move.
And I was starting to move, step by step, started to breath one after another – my head was cleaning out, my tiredness started to fade slowly but surely.
And then I figured out – I need food, I need drink, I need to dis-wash, I WANT to do something, still I am ‘officially sick’, thus having the excuse for all day doing nothing – I want to make use of this day too somehow. That was a moment of motivation.
Without wanting I was nothing but restless tiredness
With wanting I overcome tiredness.
I had to believe what I want is important, what I want to do, I am able to, and is cool for me.
At the moment of starting to move, I had no idea – just I trusted I can do – anyway it’s all I ever can have – self-trust in when and what I want and with that motivation to actually live that out.
Also in a sense I had the impression that with accepting the fact I am now sick I do not need and actually don’t want to do anything particular because thus I can rest and recover faster, thus I just let myself to rest and sleep as much as I can so then hopefully soon I can be able to return to my usual ‘me’ of eager to do things all the time – when not being tired.
So within all of losing myself in the deep experience of tiredness deliberately – I had a motivation behind it – to recover faster.
So it is just fascinating to investigate how and why I experience what I allow me to influence/direct me.
Also to observe babies/tiny kids – they do not freaking reason like this while learning to move, walk, talk – they just DO – direct motivation to LIVE.
After all it is being programmed to pick up the same strategies as other humans around them but in the beginning it’s obviously much more direct/effective/practical how they – as we also were – motivated to learn and expand – without reasons, without excuses, without concept, being undefined, yet being oneself – I want to walk, I learn to walk, I do walk. Simple.
I see/realize/understand that I do not have any option in this but to totally decompose/forgive/stop all motivations I have and literally re-define/re-create/re-birth myself with a motivation as equal as one with self, in equality and oneness with all what is here as response-able, as direct as possible.
Even the concept of ‘beating tiredness’ indicates polarity/opposition/friction/conflict thus it’s a trap.
The holistic, unifying, embracing, transcending solution is to specifically purify and let go each and every single definition/reaction/judgement/identification with tiredness and PREVENT myself participating within it before needing to experience inner friction, lack of energy or motivation.
I mean it is obvious that most of the humans has some interest for wanting to do – money/sex/power, just to name some – or experience itself in it’s multifaceted overrated fact of self-separation for our – certainly unique – affection for it.
I am not here to judge how false would be to wake up each day with the motivation for making more billions than yesterday in the sadistic altar of greed but it’s impact is deliberately rippling through the whole existence with it’s physical consequence.
But hey – how more false to be motivated with our own little bubble of experience of existence only in the charming spell of apparent free will to have our own decision within who and what we are while disregarding a whole world of consequence.
To aim the absolute with motivation is so uneasy by minds of clouded with tiredness while in fact for this poison it is also the remedy: being tired from this existence as being motivated for it’s change!
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to see/realize/understand that I have given permission to motivation to be automatically be triggered within my mind and me reacting with energy and with that energy opposing, fighting, balancing, overcoming tiredness and not being aware of how and why in fact my starting point within and as my mind is tiredness, lack of energy, no motivation, no movement by myself directly but always needing something to stimulate/influence/direct me and this whole mechanism, conditions, rules, acceptances and starting point defining it as me, as who I am without stopping, breathing here.
I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to be separated with the word motivation, with the word’s meaning, with my relationships, definitions of motivation and allow to be triggered and influenced by the polarity-based positive or negative energetic experiences to literally motivate me instead of me being here directly the living expression of and as MOTIVATION as SELF HERE.
I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to be tired and wanting something to energize me up from this state of tiredness because within that I don’t move, I can’t move, I am not movement because there is no motivation and not realizing that thus who I define myself to be as movement is of conditions, not direct, not consistent, not self-honest, in fact not real.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself tiredness as lack of energy as the reason and justification for not moving and to use it for myself or to others as ‘that is why I do/did/won’t act, because I am tired, exhausted’ meanwhile I do not motivate myself in fact about that and using tiredness as separated energetic experience as excuse for not take responsibility for what I decide and what I act as equal as one as myself here in each moment.
I forgive myself that I have not realized that I can motivate myself to walk out from the mind to not need energy, to not need to beat tiredness, to not need to have conflict within me to have friction and tension and by that energizing my mind up to then being stimulated to move within and as me and perceiving that as myself and thus believing that what I mind tell me, make me feel is who I am.
I forgive myself that I have not realized that the original tiredness I experience when I do not have motivation is who I allowed myself to be manifested in my mind as the layers of self-separation, the consent given to systematic personality behaviors, personalities to automatically judge and define, react and energize or stop energizing me and thus direct my life and defining it as who I am and defining this mechanism as life and accepting it within me and others without stopping and questioning and considering the solution as it would be stop reacting, stop being motivated by separate definition from me.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be stimulated when I am able to get camera gear because of the energetic experience of excitement, of hope of I will be able to do things I could not before and as imagining myself doing what I plan/desire/hope for with this gear – already having this energy within me and allowing me to influence me to motivate me to go and get the gear and in moments not considering reality/priorities/common sense, just allowing this feeling to overwhelm me and not seeing/realizing/understanding that I can plan and consider all factors here and still manage to get the gear but with this energetic excitement it feels more interesting, I feel more alive and not realizing that these are feelings, not direct self-expression.
I forgive myself that I have allowed myself to unconsciously be driven and influenced by feelings, feeling positive, while disregarding what is here, breath, principle, reality for moments, minutes while ‘flying’ in my mind and not seeing how it is of self-interest which is not self-direction, thus accumulating consequence of being programmed to automatize myself based on feelings, even when it is not practical, best for me and all equally, because reacting to feelings, what are coming up automatically, as trusting feelings, as revealing not trusting myself directly here as breath, as presence, as self unified.
I forgive myself that I have not allowed myself to realize that I can motivate myself with principled living to walk through and beyond my mind, definitions, reactions and bring myself to a physical birth to be here in all moments equally and live this principle to what would be the practical action for what is best for all and to motivate myself to let go self-interest, energy, but accumulate stability, consistency by always stopping myself to be automatically excited, driven, influenced and see the starting point, explore the reason of fear from living self directly here and forgiving it as myself immediately.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to define what motivates me and automatically react with positive feelings/excitement/hope/energy and not seeing/realizing/understanding the reason in the first place for that motivation to give permission to move within and as me.
That’s all around tiredness from a perspective of motivation for today, will be continued with further self-forgiveness and self-correction….and….re-definition of motivation!
Thank you very much